Dec 2021

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Ep 3: Are You 'Should-ing' On Yourself?

Valerie Jones

About this episode

1. Why do we 'should' on ourselves??

2. I share a couple stories from my own 'should-ing' and what I learned!

3. Grab your journal, I've got some questions for you to help you move out of the 'should' place and into freedom, joy and authenticity!

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