How to Not Care About What Others Think

Our self-concept is always changing. We don't always know who we are at all times. But it's important to see who we think we are, who people think we are, and who we are inside. Let's talk about how to have the correct self-concept. 

I realized this morning that we don't give ourselves enough credit because we ignore the actions we've taken along the way. In this episode, I'd like to give my two cents about how you can become more confident. 

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90% of people care too much about what other people think... Here's the most important step I took to overcome this! More @ https://www.julienhimself.com