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May 2022
32m 44s

Episode 95: The Psychology Behind Forced...

DR. JUSTIN LEHMILLER
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Have you ever fantasized about being ‘forced’ to have sex? If so, you’re not alone. Fantasies about being taken against one’s will (also known as ‘ravishment fantasies’ and ‘consensual non-consent fantasies’) are actually quite common. But just how many people report having had them? And why? That’s what we’re going to be ... Show More
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