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Mar 2021
1h 7m

When their sexual history bothers you

PAUL COLAIANNI
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Your sexual history is yours, but some people like to make it a big deal and cause you to feel guilt or shame for things you did long ago. Whether you regret what you did in the past shouldn't make a difference because it's your past and no one else's. Other people need to keep their eyes off of your rearview mirror and put their focus on the road right in f ... Show More
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