Another month, another advice column! In this bonus episode, we talk about planning out your future, fixing oily hair, Snap-chatting boyfriends, & taking a relationship break. Shop our MERCH! Shop.DearMedia.com/WHATWESAID Shop our Health & Wellness Courses! balancedboss.co FOLLOW US! INSTA// WWS Jaci Chelsey TIKTOK// Chelsey Jaci YOUT ... Show More
Sep 15
OUR BEST VALLEY GIRL ADVICE
If there’s anything that deserves a return to the What We Said spotlight, it’s some of Jaci and Chelsey’s glorious advice. You all know it, love it, and keep coming back with burning questions that need answers from your hosts. This “Best Of” episode revisits your biggest dilemma ... Show More
1h 9m
Sep 1
SIGNS HE’S CONTROLLING YOU
Back again with another hit compilation, Jaci and Chelsey are getting into your WORST dating and relationship stories! From Tinder to Hinge and Mutual, no dating app is safe. They’re reading about scary tantrums, sneaky thieves, hometown romances, and how to make sure you don’t g ... Show More
1h 12m
Oct 2024
ASK LAN: Decentering Men, Talking Stages, Friendships + Getting Fit!
#196. The monthly advice column is back. Lan is giving her take on everything from relationships to navigating conversations, removing him from a pedestal, and getting in the best shape of your life. Enjoy! xNeed advice? Send here.ITEMS MENTIONED:Philips Sonicare ToothbrushCargo ... Show More
28m 38s
Jun 2024
ASK LAN: Breaking No Contact, Being Friends w/ Exes, Getting Out of a Rut + Integrating Healthy Habits
#180. It is time for our monthly advice column! Lan answers your questions about dating, mindsets, habits, and routines. Enjoy xxITEMS MENTIONED:48 Laws of PowerWhen You're Ready, This is How You HealRhode Glazing MilkRunna App (use code ALLANA for your first 2 weeks free)Shop/My ... Show More
32m 6s
Mar 2024
ASK LAN: Making Friends + Outgrowing Them, Keeping a Balanced Lifestyle, and Breakups!
#170. It's time for our monthly advice column with Lan. She answers your questions on outgrowing friends, balancing your workouts and diet, how to meet friends in 2024, and more! Enjoy xxITEMS MENTIONED:Runna App (use code ALLANA for your first 2 weeks free)Shop/My (skincare, mak ... Show More
30m 45s
Sep 2025
ASK LAN: Should We Break Up? Outgrowing Friendships + People Pleasing
#236. This week we’re catching up on my current favs, think baby pink nails, slick back hair (no earrings vibe), and a little Vampire Diaries nostalgia. Then it’s time for Ask Lan, our monthly advice column.We’re diving into everything from how to start journaling and making it p ... Show More
38m 41s
Nov 2023
ASK P: Red Flags, Breakups, Work/Life Balance, Ending Friendships, & Having Fun Without Alcohol
#117. We really cover a number of important topics in today’s installment of ASK P, our monthly advice column. We are answering questions about relationships, entrepreneurship, friendships, & social life transitions. ALSO: the new NTS merch drops today at 5PM PST. SHOP NOTE TO SE ... Show More
1h 20m
Jun 2021
How To Deal With Toxic Relationships, Mental Health, and Confidence
The girls are catching up and answering all of your questions this week! Ways to improve on mental health, tips on feeling more confident, how to be engaging on dating apps, navigating toxic relationships with family members, and so much more!
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44m 40s
Mar 2021
ADVICE: texting your ex, adulting + moving on
Brooke and Danielle are solo this week and catching up! The gals also dive into some advice topics and tackle questions like dealing with post grad life, how to get over someone you never *really* dated, should you text your ex, staying fit in college/post grad and more!
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1h 15m
Nov 2023
ASK LAN: Managing Finances, Workout Routines, Study Habits + Celebrating 3 Years!!!
#153. Happy November bonus episode + THREE years of the pod?! Lan answers your questions in this month's advice column episode covering everything from being single after a long-term relationship living with your boyfriend, managing finances in your 20s, study habits, getting bac ... Show More
36m 42s