#117. We really cover a number of important topics in today’s installment of ASK P, our monthly advice column. We are answering questions about relationships, entrepreneurship, friendships, & social life transitions. ALSO: the new NTS merch drops today at 5PM PST. SHOP NOTE TO SELF MERCH: https://shop.dearmedia.com/collections/note-to-self FOLLOW PAYTON: ... Show More
Jul 30
The Return of the Party Girl
#257. Why is the party girl suddenly everywhere again? This week I trace the shift from clean girl and tradwife aesthetics to a messier, freer moment — the culture, the politics, the history of partying through hard times — plus the party girl commandments and my hoe theory. FOLL ... Show More
53m 49s
Jul 23
The Non-Linear Career: How to Build Credibility, Wealth, and a Life You Love, with Kira Mackenzie Jackson
#256. I'm sitting down with brand strategist, angel investor, and Material Interest writer Kira Mackenzie Jackson to talk about building credibility and wealth when your career doesn't follow a straight line. We get into following a "random" interest until it becomes real experti ... Show More
1h 3m
Jul 16
Am I Becoming My Mother?: on genetics, inheritance, and what you choose (with Genetics with Natalie)
#255. Am I slowly turning into my mother? I sat down with genetic counselor Natalie Samson to figure out how much of who we are is actually written in our DNA — and how much we get to choose. We get into inheritance, the traits that surprise you, and why your genes are a starting ... Show More
1h 11m
Aug 2020
How & When to BREAK UP, Cross the “JUST FRIENDS” line, & More!
In this month’s Advice Column episode, the girls read your submissions & give you their feedback! They talk about when & if you should try to cross the “just friends” line to see if there is relationships potential & why it can be so hard but necessary to break up with someone. T ... Show More
43m 51s
Jul 2021
My Boyfriend Gives Me THE ICK?!?
This week the girls bring you another advice column episode! They answer your questions about living with your SO, age gaps when dating, getting rid of expectations, & lacking “experience” with boys. SHOP OUR MERCH DROP: shop.DearMedia.com/whatwesaid FOLLOW US! INSTA// WWS Jaci C ... Show More
42m 36s
Feb 2022
Planning for the Future, Love Languages, & More!
Another month, another advice column! In this bonus episode, we talk about planning out your future, fixing oily hair, Snap-chatting boyfriends, & taking a relationship break. Shop our MERCH! Shop.DearMedia.com/WHATWESAID Shop our Health & Wellness Courses! balancedboss.co FOLLOW ... Show More
51m 45s
May 2021
FRIEND BREAKUPS & ADVICE!
This week Jaci & Chelsey talk about their experiences with friend group drama, ending friendships, & more. They also read your submissions asking for advice about your friendships! They talk about feeling left out, clingy friendships, how to confront someone who is hurting you, & ... Show More
1h 5m
Mar 2025
RELATIONSHIP MAKE-OR-BREAKS
This week, the girls are reading your submissions asking for advice! They talk about differing religious views, picky eaters, Jaci’s new haircut & more! What we are wearing/mentioning links: https://shopmy.us/whatwesaidpodcastWatch us on YouTube: WWS YouTube ChannelShop our MERCH ... Show More
1h 5m
Sep 2025
ASK LAN: Should We Break Up? Outgrowing Friendships + People Pleasing
#236. This week we’re catching up on my current favs, think baby pink nails, slick back hair (no earrings vibe), and a little Vampire Diaries nostalgia. Then it’s time for Ask Lan, our monthly advice column.We’re diving into everything from how to start journaling and making it p ... Show More
38m 41s
Feb 2023
my husband gives me the ick?
Another Friday, another advice column episode! This week the girls are chatting about the vitality of verbalizing “icks”, deleting social media, attending events alone, & more. NASHVILLE CHICAGO NYC BOSTON IRVINE SAN FRAN Shop our MERCH! Shop.DearMedia.com/WHATWESAID Shop our Jew ... Show More
51m 39s
Mar 2021
Living With A Boy 101 (ADVICE COLUMN)
During this week’s advice column episode the girls talk a lot about living with your SO & how to deal with differences, chores, & decor! They also give advice about forgiveness, getting over rejection & finding confidence! SHOP OUR MERCH! shop.DearMedia.com Shop our courses! www. ... Show More
47m 6s
Jun 2024
Enjoy Your 15 Minutes Because It's Gonna Be Up Soon
You guys asked and I answered. We cover a lot of questions regarding my kids, making friends in your 30s, getting over a broken heart, how weird fame is, jealousy, social media in a relationship, and how I'm able to trust being vulnerable again.A word from our sponsors:Nutrafol - ... Show More
45m 55s