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Nov 2020
16m 18s

Do Our Kids Manipulate Us?

MICHELLE KENNEY, M. ED
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We're discussing manipulation and if our kids truly manipulate us? Take some time to journal on it using Michelle's journaling guide and join the discussion on our private Facebook Community Group. Feeling called to bring this work to other parents? Our Coaching Certification Program trains you to do exactly that. DM me CERTIFICATION on Instagram for detail ... Show More
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