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May 2024
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Should We Have Another Kid? Tough Realit...

Kier & Noémie Gaines
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In this episode, we dive into the intricate dance of interactions that shape the emotional intelligence of our kids, confront the tough realities of motherhood and fatherhood, and tackle the societal pressures that influence our family decisions. From debating discipline methods to considering the addition of a third child, this episode is a candid and heartfelt journey into the chaos and beauty of our family life. Grab a snack and join us as we navigate these challenges together, sharing insights and experiences that promise to resonate deeply. It's a conversation that you won't want to miss. So let’s dive into this beautiful mess of raising a family together!

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