This is the most uncomfortable topic in parenting, because it shifts the pressure off our kids and onto us. We tell them to calm down while we’re losing it, ask for respect in a disrespectful tone, and wonder why it doesn’t work. One morning, I snapped at my daughter and watched her turn and snap at her sister in the exact same words. She wasn’t acting out. ... Show More
Nov 3
Your Kid Doesn't Need To Be Rushed
When was the last time your child got to just be? Not on the way to something. Not being moved along to the next thing. Not being asked to hurry up, finish up, or catch up. Just being, at their own pace. If you had to think hard about that, you are not a bad parent. You are livin ... Show More
21m 2s
Apr 2019
Chores, Fortnite, Authority, Respect. Kids Who Give Up When It’s Difficult
Do you agree or disagree with Kirk’s shocking advice for handling a child who yells at his Mom and defies her authority? Learn why some kids shut down and aren’t motivated. What do you do when one child takes all of your energy and attention? How do you help kids who give up when ... Show More
23m 39s
Mar 2023
Episode 59 - The Adventure of Parenting
Were you fully acknowledged, in the bigness of your very being, as a kid? Or were you treated more as, well….a kid?Believe it or not, even as kids, we are aware beings. We’re just in little bodies. But, so often, that isn’t acknowledged.Instead, so much of “parenting” is presente ... Show More
47m 8s
<p>"Mommy, I'm bored." <strong>How many times have you heard this?</strong></p>
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<p>In this episode I share <strong>why kids say "I'm bored"</strong> and <strong>how to reframe it's meaning</strong>. I emphasize the<strong> importance to create a love of learning whe ... Show More
