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Nov 2019
27m 54s

New Sibling

MICHELLE KENNEY, M. ED
About this episode

We're talking about our difficulties as we transitioned from one child to two, the mistakes we made which fueled both sibling rivalry and shame. Listen as we help other parents acknowledge the hardships while offering connective ways to help our oldest feel as if their little nest isn’t being destroyed. Here's the link to Michelle's sibling rivalry protocol and connection plan to guide you through the adjustment wherever you are along the journey. Don't forget to rate, review and subscribe! And sign up for Michelle's upcoming book club on Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents.

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