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Dec 2022
10m 28s

Sibling Rivalry

Dr. Cathryn
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Did you know that treating siblings as equals fuels friction and fighting?   Sibling relationships are complex. Observational studies have shown that   some siblings fight as often as eight times an hour! Yet those relationships are essential for shaping children, and from a developmental standpoint, sibling rivalry helps kids figure out their distinctive qu ... Show More
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