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Oct 2021
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Dealing with the Feels After an Employee...

Harvard Business Review
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Managers are told that when an employee resigns, they should be professional, reassure their team, and wish the person well. But we also know that resignations bring up a lot of feelings: panic, loss, self-doubt. Five managers acknowledge those emotions and share how they’ve learned to cope. 
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