Sep 2021

45m 8s

134: What Trauma Does To Your Relationsh...

MATTHEW HUSSEY

About this episode

Matt and Steve sit down to talk:

Where trauma and bad beliefs come from
The effect of trauma on romantic relationships
Getting over pain and changing emotional associations
Boomer, Gen Z, Millenials + the failure of empathy

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