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Sep 2021
45m 59s

How to Accept Your Flaws, SILENCE the Ha...

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At what age did you become aware of your body? How long after becoming aware of your body did you start to feel shame or embarrassment? When your walking down the street, sitting in a class, at work, or scrolling through social media, everywhere you look, consciously or unconsciously you are silently judging others and judging yourself. Maybe you think to yourself, ‘she’s so pretty,’ ‘at least I have more curves than her,’ or ‘she’s too skinny (or fat).’

From Khloe Kardashian to Billie Eilish, from your grandmother to your best friend and the last woman you saw today, everyone seems to be struggling with body image, self-love and confidence. Emme, the first plus-size supermodel that flipped modeling industry standards for how thick or thin is actually beautiful, joins Lisa and discusses her experience getting into modeling and on her first big photo shoot, being called a ‘fatty’.

Emme is an international ambassador and champion for changing beauty standards to help “real” women embrace and love the body they have. She is speaking out against unrealistic standards and talking about leveling up your life, your vibe, your passion and purpose for living. 

For more information on eating disorders and body image issues, Emme highly recommends: https://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org/ 


SHOW NOTES: 

Big Photo Shoot | Photographer refuses to work with Emme. This was her response [0:31]

Not About Me | Emme on why it's more about where the other person is coming from [4:31]

Fear | Identifying when people are coming at you from a place of fear and bullying [7:45]

Body Dysmorphia | Think about what your relationship is with food and view of self [8:53]

Comparison | Emme on why comparison is problem, know what’s right for you first [12:11]

Solutions | Limiting social media, knowing yourself and connecting to nature is a start [15:00]

Gratitude | Reframing gratitude and having appreciation for your body and soul [19:15]

Confident | Emme shares how she found confidence in spite of body shaming at home [22:48]

Empowered | You choose your journey and how you decide to feel, it’s empowerment [29:51]

Self Talk | How to talk to yourself & counter negative self talk, you’re a work in progress [33:38]

Self Acceptance | Love yourself and be free with who you are in the present moment [35:33]

Passion |How to live a full with joy and a meaningful life with purpose on purpose [38:36] 


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