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Jan 2019
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644: How to redeem your pain, abuse and ...

Kevin Miller | YAP Media
About this episode
Got pain? Had abuse? Endured some hardships? In this show, I wanted to visit one more time, our crucibles. In show 639 we talked with Dr James Kelley about harnessing our crucible or trials in essence for gain, instead of handicap. Using our adversity as a strength, not a weakness. I wanted to hear from our listeners, real issues. So I posted this question ... Show More
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