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Sep 2021

25m 24s

#252: Helping Kids with Big Changes

Erin Royer, MA Clinical Psychology, Child Development Specialist

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A listener wants to know if it's OK to always pick up a fussy, needy toddler who always wants to be held? Will this responsiveness perpetuate more neediness and get in the way of building independence? Another mom wants to know how to handle a particular attention-seeking behavio ... Show More

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