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Aug 2021
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#76 What is a Trauma Bond with Dr. Jaime...

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Today I brought back and interviewed Dr. Jaime Zuckerman, who is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and media expert on all things therapy and mental health. In this episode we talk all about trauma bonds - what is a trauma bond, why do they happen, what are the underlying circumstances that lead to a trauma bond. We also discuss why trauma bonds are so hard to break, and once they are broken and you come out of that relationship why it feels so hard and so painful.

 

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