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Mar 2021
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90: When Should You STOP Giving So Much ...

MATTHEW HUSSEY
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OK, picture this . . . I’m in my local coffee shop, minding my own business—my business in this case is ordering an oat milk flat white (just in case we ever go to coffee and you want to know what my order is)—and I get talking to a woman who tells me she’s mad at me.

She knows who I am, she’s a fan, she even said my program worked for her, and yet she told me she was mad at me.

In this week’s new episode, I tell the full story . . . and it highlights how so many people get hurt because they follow 95% of my advice, but ignore one of the most crucial things I say.

Think of it this way: you can have all the right ingredients to bake a cake, but if you forget to add baking powder, the cake isn’t going to rise.

In this episode, you’re going to learn what the baking powder of dating is. Without it, your relationship will not rise, which explains what happened to this woman I met in the coffee shop.

Check it out, and don’t forget to email us a comment at podcast@matthewussey.com when you get there. Happy weekend, friend!

P.S. I’m giving away a free video module of one of my favorite programs, Attraction to Commitment, at the end of this video. If you’re sick of guys wanting to see you casually, and are ready for a real relationship with someone who’s willing to commit, this is for you.

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