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Jan 2024
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E692 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Isn't Toxic...

Nick Viall
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Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We're back to answer your burning questions about the world of dating and relationships. Before getting to our callers, we read an email from a listener whose boyfriend cheated on her with a stripper. He's done this with multiple girls, but is willing to 'work on himself.' What should she do? Then, we get to our callers…

Our first caller isn't sure whether her long term boyfriend is the one. After almost 3 years and his push to move forward… she's no longer sure of the relationship. Our second caller's friend accused her boyfriend of using her for her car. Without defending himself, he broke up with her on facetime and said 'I'm not 100% going to be a boyfriend for you right now.' Our final caller's best friend confessed his love to her, right after she gave birth to her 3rd child. Her baby daddy is jealous of this friend, while she is intrigued by their chemistry. 

"You are simply not appreciating what you have with him." 

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