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Jul 2023
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E614 Ask Nick - I Only Date Guys With Gi...

Nick Viall
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Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We’re back to answer your burning questions about the world of dating and relationships. Before getting to our callers, we have an Ask Nick session with our very own, Addison, a part-time editor on the show. She is currently in a long-distance situationship, which is strictly forbidden for members on the show, so we learn about the relationship and offer advice on how to get what she wants. 

Our first caller is concerned about her dating habit of getting into relationships with men who have girlfriends. After finding out for a second time that the guy she was seeing had a secret girlfriend, she seeks advice on how to stop this pattern that’s developing and how to spot red flags. Our second caller just got divorced and is contemplating taking a European vacation with a guy friend that has feelings for her. She’s wondering if this decision is unhinged considering her recent divorce. Our final caller found Mr. Right, but thinks he’s unattractive. She’s never met a guy who understands or treats her the way he does, but is worried his hairiness is something she can’t look past.  

“It’s a lot easier to change how a guy dresses, than how he treats you.” 

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