Love and Abuse

In the never-ending rut of hoping they change

Can you get past more aggressive or physical abuse?

When the relationship boundaries are broken a second time

Someone's obsession of you can be disastrous

Isolating you from everything and everyone, leaving you a shell of your former self

They call me names, put me down, tell me how pathetic I am - I guess I'm the problem.mp3

It's me or them: When someone wants to control your relationship with others

Being called a bad parent if you want to leave the abusive relationship

I don't want to hurt the person who hurts me by leaving them

The feeling that you lost a big chunk of your life to the abusive person

Leaving an abusive person isn't easy and sometimes isn't over

The trauma bond keeps you lovesick and broken

Can you still like someone who hurt you but not love them?

Are your children being manipulated, too?

If you don't draw the line on how much is too much, you won't have a line

How does an abusive person become an abusive person?

Getting conned into taking an unhealed abuser back

Do mutually abusive relationships have a chance?

The superiority complex of misogynists

When you won't see an emotionally abusive person change

Did you sign up for a life of indentured servitude?

They say they love you but they hurt you anyway

I feel like a bad person for being abusive back

The healed emotional abuser is more than just a behavioral change

Do we talk about divorce during the argument or the calm period

Do I accept that this is how theyll be forever

When its impossible to get away from all the toxic behavior

Dont call them what they really are, it will work against you

Total defeat and burnout in the emotionally abusive relationship

When you are a captive audience to the emotionally abusive monologuer

Ive stopped being abusive, let's have sex

Don't gaslight yourself into thinking you're the abuser

The feelings of guilt and shame after leaving the abusive person

Breaking the trauma bond can be hard as hell

Can you heal from severe abuse while still in a severely abusive situation?

Why you may not be ready to call it abuse when it is abuse

Do you end the relationship because they won't?

The breadcrumbing of relationships' past

The language patterns of the abusive person

Can you ever go back to who you were?

Never trust someone who wants to change who you are

The love of my life is the abuser in my life

Can someone change even after they've done something terrible to you?

You being the center of their attention is most of the problem

When someone wants to change who you are

The empty threats that keep the abuse cycle alive

Trying to figure out who the emotionally abusive person really is in the relationship

When a relationship is not a relationship

Don't lock yourself into a worse situation

Why abusive people need to maintain power and control over you