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Jan 2024
44m 13s

8 Signs You Have an Anxious Attachment S...

Adam LoDolce and Dr. Gary Lewandowski
About this episode

The longing for a companion, a partner to share life's journey with, is a universal desire. The allure of romance and destiny can be captivating, consuming your every thought.

Yet, in this quest for love, do you find yourself going a bit overboard, perhaps scaring potential partners away?

Have your relationships started wonderfully, only to gradually lose their spark?

Are you often left wondering why men seem distant or emotionally unavailable?

If these questions resonate with you, anxious attachment may be playing a role in your romantic life.

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