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Feb 2021
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Laying down the ground rules for the tox...

PAUL COLAIANNI
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If you want a toxic person to change, it will probably never happen. However, there is something you can do to change the course of the relationship that may actually cause them to act differently. Sometimes you gotta make rules that guide toxic people to healthier behavior. 
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