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Feb 2021
23m 33s

The science of relationships, with Gary ...

AMERICAN PSYCHOLOGICAL ASSOCIATION
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For psychologists, romance, attraction and love are not just the stuff of poetry – they’re also a subject for research. What are the qualities of a successful relationship? Why do some relationships endure while others fail? What do we gain from our relationships? How do we know which ones are worth holding onto or when it’s time to quit? Gary Lewandowski, P ... Show More
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