#22 Return To Leniency

I think we're caught between a desire to express and a fear of being exposed. And this is a result of having been experiencing past traumas where genuine expression was 'attacked' in a sense. X: https://x.com/ltsFahad Instagram: https://instagram.com/itsfahad TikTok: https://www. ... Show More

It's best to start and improve as you go rather than wait until you're good enough before starting. 

If you're struggling to do what you love, then maybe this approach will help. I think this mostly works with tackling meaningful challenges, but maybe it works for life in general too. 

<p>Ever sat ruminating obsessively over something you could have or should have done differently in your relationship? Something you said, something you did, or something you wish you’d have done more? It’s a dreadful, sickening feeling. I know because I’ve felt it. It leads to r ... Show More

are you feeling like everything happens to you and not FOR YOU? Then babe.. you’re in the victim mentality. Which means this episode is for YOU. Today I walk you through the mindset shifts I needed to make in order to heal my chronic hand pain that I was living with for TWO YEARS ... Show More

Do you feel bad for what you did? Do you feel guilty? How long ago was it? Is feeling guilt a necessary component of healing? In this episode, someone feels guilty for moving on without their friends from the past and wants to know how to stop. Their life has improved and they've ... Show More

We all act tough sometimes. There are times when acting tough can serve a purpose. There will be times when you need to set your feelings aside and push through something difficult. It’s OK to acknowledge that you feel uncomfortable, to ask for help, and to be vulnerable with oth ... Show More

Your sense of self and identity can dissolve or even be rewritten over years of trau Your sense of self and identity can dissolve or even be rewritten over years of trauma, abuse, and / or dysfunction. Dis-integration can happen after a lifetime of challenges that you haven't hea ... Show More

What happens when the hurtful behavior stops and you are free to be yourself? Does the relationship now go back to normal like nothing ever happened? It can, but it rarely does. In fact, most victims of emotional abuse want the person who hurt them to feel what they went through. ... Show More

<p>Recovery can be very difficult because of shame. Shame is an obstacle to healing for everybody. How do you face hard truths about your own dark side without drowning in the shame? Learn how to balance the footprint of shame that stomps on your soul. The only way to continue to ... Show More

If you feel like you lost yourself in your last relationship, today is the day we talk about how to feel like yourself again after a breakup. Leave with brilliant insights and mind blowing moments that will help you feel like yourself again TODAY. The Get Over Your Ex COURSE: htt ... Show More

Is there a part of you that you can't necessarily feel fully? Do you think you could be happier than you are? Sometimes we stuff emotions down so far that we forget they're there. When that happens, a part of us can actually shut down or become numb. It's important to restart tha ... Show More