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Jan 2022
43m 52s

3. getting out of the victim mentality

Elicia Goguen
About this episode
are you feeling like everything happens to you and not FOR YOU? Then babe.. you’re in the victim mentality. Which means this episode is for YOU. Today I walk you through the mindset shifts I needed to make in order to heal my chronic hand pain that I was living with for TWO YEARS, in hopes to shed some light and give you faith that everything WILL work out for you, as long as you consciously decide to trust the process. 

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