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Nov 2013
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How To Get Fit For Sex (WARNING: Explici...

BEN GREENFIELD
About this episode

I'll begin with a quick story - and a warning that we're about to venture into the realm of "adult" oriented topics...

...a few months ago, I sat in on an online presentation given by one of my friends, Jordan Gray.

That night, and for the week following this online presentation, I took massive action - as I usually do when I am exposed to new and exciting ideas.

I began implementing Jordan's tips - and immediately my sexual performance went through the roof. My sex drive was amplified ten-fold. I became, as Jordan might put it, a "beast" in the bedroom. It even got to the point at which my wife asked me "What happened to you?" (and this was meant in a very, very good way).

You're in luck, because today Jordan is going to share those same tips with you. I'll warn you that we really get down to brass tacks, and this is an explicit episode.

Jordan's information is probably most applicable to males - but whether you're a guy or a girl, you're going to benefit bigtime from this episode (and women - trust me - you want to send your significant others over to this episode!). Jordan is a #1 Amazon best-selling author and relationship coach who helps people remove their emotional blocks, and get into (and maintain) thriving intimate relationships. He has worked with over a thousand students over the past five years, including married couples, dating couples and single men and women...

...and as you can probably imagine, has more wedding invitations from his former clients than he can keep up with!

Jordan's books include:

-How To Be The Most Engaging Person In The Room...Every Time

-50 Powerful Date Ideas: Brag-Worthy, Cost Effective Dates From A Professional Dating Coach

-The Introvert's Guide To Dating

-Keep Her Captivated

During my chat with Jordan, we discuss:

-How to overcome the fear or nervousness of leading your partner into sex or being more "aggressive"...

-How to ensure that communication channels are 100% open in your relationship...

-Whether or not pornography can be used to enhance your sexual health...

-How to breathe the right way during sex...

-Whether you should go long periods of time without orgasm or ejaculation...

-Which time of year you have the most sexual energy...

-Special exercises you can do maximize your pelvic strength...

-What kind of workouts, stretches and exercises to do before sex...

-Relationship tips for introverted or shy people...

-And much more!

Do you have questions about how to get fit for sex? If so, leave your comments, questions and feedback at BenGreenfieldFitness.com!

See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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