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Jul 2017
45m 20s

Shasta Nelson - Girlfriends Can Save the...

JEN HATMAKER
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Did you know that there is a science around “girlfriendhood?” Shasta Nelson, a noted “friendship expert” and author of a book series on friendships, does. Shasta’s life work is to help women make and keep great friendships, and she has studied the actual science of why having girlfriends makes us stronger, smarter and healthier!  Plus, you’ll find out what k ... Show More
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