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Oct 1
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What Happens When Two Avoidants Fall in ...

Adam Lane Smith & Andrey Korikov
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Everyone said it could not work. Two avoidant people in the same relationship. Two people wired to pull back, protect themselves, and disappear the moment things get close. And then Carly and Mel proved everyone wrong. Adam Lane Smith sits down with couple Carly Randall and Mel Shingleton, two self-proclaimed avoidants, for a live coaching session that answe ... Show More
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