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Oct 1
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Text This, NOT That: 18 Texts that Get Y...

Connell Barrett
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What kind of text should you never send a woman—and what should you send instead? Dating coach Connell Barrett breaks down 9 texts that can hurt your chances with her, and shares 9 charming alternatives that can help you get more replies and land more dates.


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