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Sep 11
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8 Flirty Things to Say (and Not to Say) ...

Connell Barrett
About this episode
Do you struggle with what to say around attractive women—whether you’re at the gym, on a date, or texting with someone from a dating app? In this episode of the “How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast,” dating coach Connell Barrett gives you eight flirty things to say—and the eight things NOT to say—so you can stop freezing up and start making sparks fly with women you’re into. Listen now.

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