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May 2023
50m 27s

How to Unlock Your X-Factor in Dating an...

THE ART OF CHARM
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In today’s episode, we cover dating and building attraction effortlessly with AJ, Johnny, and Coach Michael Herold.


Technology has made it easier than ever to stay connected, so why are we dealing with a pandemic of loneliness and what can you do to lift yourself out of it and create a vibrant social life?


What to Listen For

  • Introduction – 0:00
  • Does the pandemic of loneliness affect men or women more and what can we do about it?
  • What 3 areas in your life is technology hindering you the most and what can you do to develop them, unlocking your true potential?


  • Go from Ordinary to Extraordinary – 13:02
  • What can you do to be extraordinary and remain authentic to who you are?
  • How do you learn to be funnier and more charming?


  • Building Rock Solid Confidence – 25:35 
  • How do you build confidence and why do you need to work on it in order to maintain it?


  • All Men Need a Vibrant Social Life – 35:23
  • Why is it important to have a vibrant social circle if you want to find a quality romantic partner?
  • How do you build a social life women will be excited to be a part of?


Loneliness affects us all. To conquer this sadness we need to work on ourselves and embrace technology but also find ways to have genuine human interactions. Begin by building confidence which comes from pushing yourself out of your comfort zone, openly expressing your feelings and striving to be the best version of yourself. Socializing with others is also essential for living a fulfilled life, as it helps you build connections and find prospective romantic partners. By being authentic, striving for excellence and working on self-improvement you can become an extraordinary individual while also valuing companionship without disregarding your independence. Start making connections today that will help you release the pandemic of loneliness in your life and boost your chances of living an enriching life full of quality relationships!

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