You can have insane chemistry with someone who is TERRIBLE at relationships. I said what I said.
We keep asking "Do we like each other?" when we should be asking "Can this person actually BE in a relationship?"
Liking each other is easy. Being in a relationship is a SKILL. And most people you have chemistry with have zero relationship skills.
In today’s episode, I'm breaking down the difference between chemistry and capacity, and the 5 questions you NEED to ask before you waste another year on a vibe that will never become a home.
IN THIS EPISODE:- Why chemistry is lying to you
- The difference between chemistry and compatibility (this will change how you date)
- Question 1: Can he communicate when he's upset or does he punish you with silence?
- Question 2: Can he be consistent or only intense?
- Question 3: Can he handle conflict without making you the problem?
- Question 4: Do you like who YOU are when you're with him?
- Question 5: Can he actually show up as a partner, not just a boyfriend?
- Why you keep falling for chemistry and how to break the pattern
This episode will save you 2 years.
Watch it before your next date. Watch it before you text him back.
