Most people think communication problems are about saying the wrong thing. They’re not. Communication problems usually happen because one or both people are emotionally flooded, dysregulated, afraid, defensive, or trying to protect themselves. The truth is that communication is easy when you’re calm. The real test is: Can you communicate well when you’re hur ... Show More
Jun 18
Attachment Styles, Love Languages, & Stronger Connections
Falling in love is often effortless. Staying in love is where the real work begins. Sarah sits down with attachment theory expert and founder of The Personal Development School, Thais Gibson, to explore what actually keeps love alive long after the honeymoon phase ends. Why do so ... Show More
55m 31s
Jun 11
The Cost of Seeing Clearly: When the Future You Imagined No Longer Exists
Have you ever wondered, “Why is this so hard to let go of when I know it is not right for me?”. In part 8 of our relationship series, we explore one of the most disorienting emotional experiences in relationships: The moment you realize you are not just losing a person, but a fut ... Show More
39m 9s
Jun 4
I loved who I thought they could be: The fantasy vs the reality of love
Part 7 of the Relationship SeriesHave you ever looked back at a relationship and wondered what you were seeing? Maybe you ignored red flags, held on to someone’s potential, or stayed attached to a future that never arrived.In this episode, Sarah explores the difference between th ... Show More
41m 49s
May 2025
How To Know When To Call It Quits In A Relationship
In this episode, the hosts unpack the complicated process of knowing when it's time to leave a relationship, highlighting the emotional risks, attachment patterns, and fears of regret that often make the decision so difficult. They emphasize that while love and good qualities may ... Show More
48m 36s
Jan 2025
731: ASK RACH: Should I end the friendship? Help, I need a makeover! How do I navigate miscarriage?
<p>In this <i>Ask Rach</i> episode, I’m diving into some of your heartfelt, complicated, and oh-so-relatable questions. We’ll talk about navigating the grief and emotions that come with miscarriage, figuring out what you actually <i>like</i> (when everything feels like a blur), a ... Show More
34m 1s
Sep 2025
Therapists Answer Erotic Questions After Hours
Problemistas, we've missed you. We're working on our brand this week, establishing our "after hours" vibe. Which prompted a soundboard re-think. It'll make sense when you listen. Just jump in and click play. 16:00 - Question 1 - Masterbating, oh what fun.23:47 - Question 2 - My b ... Show More
1h 1m