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Apr 8
26m 2s

How Past Wounds Distort Your Definition ...

The Angry Therapist
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How do childhood wounds, past relationships, and old emotional patterns shape your definition of love? In this episode, John Kim explores how relationship residue turns into distorted definitions of love. He breaks down how early experiences, family dynamics, unhealthy conflict, self-sacrifice, and internalized pain can create a damaging love blueprint th ... Show More
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