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Feb 13
37m 42s

7 Make-or-Break Dating Moments to Either...

Connell Barrett
About this episode
There are pivotal moments in dating that determine whether you create romantic sparks with a woman or lose your chance with her entirely. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett breaks down 7 make-or-break moments that will determine when and if you find the relationship you want.

Episode Highlights:

02:45: Make-or-Break Moment 1: To Approach or Not to Approach?

07:30: Make-or-Break Moment 2: When and How to Ask Her Out

12:15: Make-or-Break Moment 3: THIS Makes Her Swipe Right

16:45: Make-or Break Moment 4: Use Your First-Date Superpower to Escape the Friend Zone

23:20: Make-or-Break Moment 5: The Secret to Pre-Date Texting

26:05: Make-or-Break Moment 6: How to Pass Her Tests

30:10: Make or Break Moment 7: A Texting Move to Stop Getting Ghosted

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