The Quiet Cost of Conditional Worth

Most people don’t walk around thinking, “My worth is conditional.” They just feel the tension when things aren’t going well—and the relief when they are.

This episode sits with that tension. The quiet pressure to perform, to keep up, to prove something—often without realizing that your sense of value has been hooked onto outcomes, approval, or progress. When those things rise, you feel lifted. When they fall, something inside collapses. Not because anything essential changed, but because worth was never free to begin with.

Dr. Aziz reflects on how conditional self-worth forms, how it hides in plain sight, and how it can quietly run an entire emotional life. This isn’t a strategy session or a mindset fix. It’s an invitation to notice what you’ve tied yourself to—and what happens when that grip loosens.

You may find yourself recognizing something familiar, and feeling a little more space around it.