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Nov 11
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5 Toxic Beliefs Women Have About Money w...

Kate Harlow
About this episode

This episode is so incredibly important for all women to hear!!  Kate has the most next level money empowerment conversation with Money Coach, Brenda St. Louis - who brings master-level, pull back the curtain on the invisible beliefs that quietly sabotage women’s wealth, power, and financial freedom. 

Brenda brings a level of nuance and genius to money work that goes far beyond “budget better” advice. Together, they explore the emotional, somatic, and cultural conditioning that keeps women stressed, under-earning, self-sacrificing, and secretly ashamed around money—even when they’re wildly successful.

If you’ve ever felt like money is hard, confusing, overwhelming, or just not for you… this episode will crack something open.

Inside this episode:

  • How patriarchal narratives shape female earning, spending, and receiving
  • Why being “good” often means being broke—and how to dismantle that myth
  • The unconscious guilt women carry for wanting more
  • Why overwhelm is often a trauma response—not a budgeting issue
  • How to rewire your money nervous system so wealth feels safe
  • The sneaky ways shame keeps us stuck in financial loops
  • What actually shifts when you stop hustling and start receiving

This is not a surface-level money chat. Brenda names what most experts don’t—and offers liberating truths that will expand how you see yourself, your value, and your earning potential.

If money has ever made you feel small, confused, emotional, or ashamed… this episode is for you. 

This conversation has the power to change everything about how you relate to money. You’ll want to replay it. Take notes. And share it with every woman you love.

Resources & Next Steps:

FREE Discover Your Saboteur Mini Course: https://www.theunscriptdwoman.com/discover-your-saboteur

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About the Guest:

Money is energy. Wealth is peace. Healing is leadership.

Brenda St. Louis is an inspirational speaker, financial therapist, and money coach who helps people rewire their emotional and financial stories to experience peace, confidence, and joy with money. With over three decades of experience in business, healing, and personal growth, Brenda blends intuition, psychology, and financial literacy to show that money isn’t just numbers — it’s energy, emotion, and empowerment. She has created transformational programs that help high-achieving entrepreneurs and everyday earners break free from survival mode and step into alignment with their values, vision, and wealth potential.

Brenda is the author of The Lost Synapse and co-author of The Thought That Changed My Life Forever with Dr. Joe Dispenza and Bernie Siegel. Her work has been featured on numerous podcasts, radio, and TV programs, and she’s known for her grounded humour and her ability to turn complex money concepts into emotional clarity and practical action.

Current Offering:

The Intergenerational Money Reset — a 4-week immersive to heal inherited money trauma and create a new financial legacy. Starts on Nov 15th 2025 - Offered 3 times a calendar...

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