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Oct 2025
50m 26s

“What It’s Really Like to Be Single at 4...

Ilana Dunn
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I’m joined by Judit, a 49-year-old woman living in Barcelona who has never been married and is opening up about what it’s really like to be single at this stage of life. She shares what she wishes she could tell her 30-year-old self about dating, how the landscape has shifted from pre-apps to today, and how she responds when people ask, “why are you still si ... Show More
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