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742 - Nothing... then everything all at once

In this episode, I talk about seasons of "nothing" and seasons of acceleration. I talk about the science and mindfulness behind how things happen all at once right after you think nothing is happening.My new book "The Opposite of Settling" is out now!Instagram: @case.kenny Hosted ... Show More

14m 12s

Oct 6

741 - "Why hasn't it happened for me yet?"

In this episode, I talk about how to deal with pressure to find "the one." I talk about recognizing the right vs. wrong path of your life.My new book "The Opposite of Settling" is out now!Instagram: @case.kenny Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for inf ... Show More

18m 48s

Sep 29

739 - What it means to be truly "desired" by someone

In this episode, I talk about a new definition of "desire." I talk about how to know if someone truly desires you or just "wants" you.My new book "The Opposite of Settling" is out now!Instagram: @case.kenny Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for informa ... Show More

13m 49s

Sep 15

798. What A Conscious Relationship Asks of You

Conscious relationship... It's one of the most common buzzwords that's in the relational space right now. It can bring up confusion, angst, and other complicated emotions we don’t want to be spending too much time in. So, what is it? And how can we practice it, or be ready for it ... Show More

11m 26s

Jul 2

303: How To Know If They Have Relationship Potential In Early Dating (Feat. Dr. Morgan Cutlip)

In this episode, Matthew sits down with Dr. Morgan Cutlip (@drmorgancutlip) to explore the real work of modern relationships. Whether you’re dating, married, or somewhere in between, this is a must-listen for anyone who wants to learn how to communicate their needs, set boundarie ... Show More

1h 14m

Jan 2018

Girls Night #16: How to Know if He's "The One" with Mariko Clark

In this episode, my friend, Marri, and I talk about how to know if he's the one (and what that even means) and what boundaries to set while dating! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

1h 23m

Jan 2025

142. You Don’t Need Common Interests With Your Partner (What To Focus On Instead)

How much do you really need in common with the person you're dating for it to work? In this episode, you'll learn what matters more than having shared interests and how to navigate relationships when your hobbies clash or don't really overlap. I also talk about how my relationshi ... Show More

39m 45s

Aug 18

(Matt Monday): “When a Relationship’s Right, It’s Easy” . . . WRONG!

What makes a relationship truly great? Does it have to be hard to be meaningful? In today’s video, I speak with Rob Dial, host of The Mindset Mentor podcast, to find answers. We talk about the difference between the kind of “hard” that strengthens a relationship and the kind that ... Show More

28m 44s

Jul 2018

Ep 106: Fear of Intimacy + Commitment

In this episode I talk about why people are afraid of intimacy and commitment – and I do it for both sides of the relationship: the fearers and the chasers. So this is for anyone who was in a happy in a relationship and then their partner started distancing as soon as things got ... Show More

57m 24s

Aug 2024

160. how to BUILD a relationship with yourself, especially if you're anxiously attached.

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I talk about how to build and maintain a relationship with yourself especially if you're anxiously. I deep dive into how it looks to not be in a relationship with yourself, why we tend to fall into this dynamic and ways to rebuild and stabilize y ... Show More

58m 31s

Apr 2025

196. how to stop being low maintenance in relationships 🎙 situationships, low standards & anxiousness..

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode, we are diving deep into no longer being "low maintenance" in relationships by first looking at WHY we accept the bare minimum, situationships and relationships that do not serve us and mindset shifts, journal prompts and reminders to finally get ... Show More

38m 57s

Sep 2024

458 | Dating Clutter

The Minimalists speak with clinical psychologist Orion Taraban about minimizing dating clutter to form more meaningful intimate relationships. Discussed in this episode: Any advice for dating again after the end of a long relationship? (2:08) How do I avoid carrying past baggage ... Show More

1 h

740 - Stop letting other people ruin you...