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Oct 2025
55m 42s

Why Can't They Just Get Over It

Thrive Therapy - Colter Bloxom, Lauren Mokarry, and Cayla Bozovich
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This episode looks at why your partner might struggle to “just get over” something that feels small to you. Often, their reaction isn’t really about the forgotten text or missed plan—it’s about old wounds from times they felt invisible or unimportant. Instead of brushing it off, the episode shows how empathy and repair can turn these moments into opportuniti ... Show More
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