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Sep 29
38m 37s

EP 583: Inside the Mind of the Avoidantl...

DR. MORGAN ANDERSON
About this episode

Avoidant attachment gets such a bad reputation, but the truth is much more nuanced and hopeful. In this highly requested episode, I break down what’s really happening inside the avoidantly attached partner’s mind, why intimacy can feel like danger, and most importantly, how healing is absolutely possible. Whether you identify as an avoidant, you’re anxiously attached, or you just want to better understand relationships, this episode is for you.

Inside the episode, I share:

  • Why avoidantly attached partners distance themselves (and why it’s not about not caring).
  • The truth about healing avoidant attachment (and what it really takes).
  • How you can build safety, connection, and secure attachment—even if avoidance has been your default.

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