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Sep 2024
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Transform Your Dating Life in 5 Steps - ...

Violet Benson
About this episode

Do you want to stroll into any room like you own it and have people hanging on your every word? Do you want to be so magnetic that the partner of your dreams can’t resist being drawn to you like a moth to a flame? And how about finally standing your ground and making sure no one ever overlooks you again, so you can start living the fabulous life you’ve always deserved?

Well, you’re in the right place because this episode is your ultimate guide to leveling up your confidence game in dating and in life with my 5 confidence hacks. 


Welcome to BAD B*TCH UNIVERSITY, baby! This is the third of FOUR powerhouse episodes designed to change the way you've been dating, raise your standards, kick your self worth and self esteem into high gear, attract only the best, and unlock the NEW AND IMPROVED YOU!!!


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