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Sep 25
14m 54s

TAM+ EP 87 Uncovering Your Superpowers: ...

Duane Osterlind, LMFT
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Worksheet: Uncovering Your Superpowers


What if you had superpowers you didn't even know existed? What if the very qualities that could transform your recovery have been hiding inside you all along?

In this powerful episode, hosts Duane and Eric Osterlind flip the script on traditional recovery thinking. Instead of endlessly focusing on what's broken, they show you how to uncover what's strong. Using tools from positive psychology, they guide you through a process of discovering your hidden character strengths – those amazing qualities that addiction and trauma may have buried but never destroyed.

If you've ever looked in the mirror and only seen an addict, a failure, or someone who's fundamentally flawed, this episode is for you. The hosts understand that feeling of being defined entirely by your struggles. They know what it's like when your identity feels completely wrapped up in setbacks and mistakes.

But here's the truth they want you to know: You are not broken. You have incredible strengths that are just waiting to be rediscovered.

The episode introduces you to groundbreaking research by Dr. Martin Seligman and Dr. Christopher Peterson, who identified 24 character strengths that every person possesses. These aren't made-up feel-good concepts – they're scientifically proven traits like bravery, creativity, kindness, perseverance, and hope that exist in all of us to varying degrees.

The research is clear: when people identify their top strengths and find new ways to use them daily, they experience lasting increases in happiness and decreases in depression. This isn't just positive thinking – it's an evidence-based path to wellness.

During the episode, you'll participate in a real-time exercise to identify one of your own strengths. The hosts walk you through remembering a time when you overcame a challenge, then help you pinpoint the inner quality that made it possible. Was it courage? Creativity? Persistence? Kindness?

But identifying your strength is just the beginning. The real magic happens when you consciously use these strengths in new ways. The hosts provide concrete examples: if your strength is curiosity, spend 15 minutes learning something new. If it's kindness, buy coffee for the person behind you in line. If it's bravery, speak up in that meeting where you usually stay quiet.

This approach fundamentally changes how you see yourself. Instead of being someone who needs to fix all their broken parts, you become someone who can build on their existing strengths. You shift from asking "What's wrong with me?" to "What's strong with me?"

The hosts are careful to point out this isn't about ignoring challenges or pretending weaknesses don't exist. It's about building up your strengths so you have a solid foundation from which to face difficulties. Both sides of the coin are true – you have challenges AND you have incredible strengths.

People in long-term recovery who tap into their strengths become amazingly creative, strong, and resilient. When they start relying on these positive characteristics, transformation happens.

This episode includes practical action steps you can take right now, plus access to a free worksheet that guides you through identifying your strengths and planning specific ways to use them. It's designed to help you live the life you want to live in recovery.

If you're tired of focusing only on what's wrong and ready to start building on what's right, this episode offers a powerful new perspective. Your strengths have been there all along – it's time to uncover them and put them to work.

Key Topics

  • The problem with deficit-focused thinking – why constantly focusing on flaws keeps you stuck
  • Introduction to positive psychology – the science of what makes life worth living
  • The 24 universal character strengths – research-backed traits everyone possesses
  • Real-time strength identification exercise – discovering your own superpowers through reflection
  • Practical implementation strategies – specific ways to use your strengths in daily life
  • Shifting self-perception – moving from "what's wrong with me" to "what's strong with me"
  • Building on strengths vs. fixing weaknesses – a balanced approach to personal growth

Step 4: Timestamp List (7 Key Moments)

[00:01:00] - The hidden superpower thought experiment and why we focus on defects instead of strengths

[00:03:00] - The narrative of deficits: how seeing yourself as fundamentally flawed keeps you stuck

[00:05:00] - Introduction to positive psychology and the 24 universal character strengths research

[00:07:00] - Real-life examples of people in recovery tapping into their strengths

[00:08:00] - Interactive exercise: identifying your own strength through proud moment reflection

[00:09:00] - Taking action: specific ways to use your identified strength this week

[00:11:00] - How focusing on strengths fundamentally changes your self-perception

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