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Sep 15
59m 35s

How to Build Inner Strength and Beat Por...

Jeremy Lipkowitz
About this episode

🔹 Want personalized support? Book a free discovery call with Jeremy: JeremyLipkowitz.com/intro

Join me in this transformative episode where I appeared on Sam Tieleman's podcast, 'Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction.' I share my journey of overcoming pornography addiction and discovering a deeply fulfilling life through mindfulness. We discuss the critical moments of rock bottom, the power of mindfulness in cultivating awareness and equanimity, and the importance of building a life filled with inner peace and fulfillment. Learn about the difference between white-knuckle abstinence and true sustainable recovery, practical mindfulness practices, and the profound transformation that comes from understanding one's emotions without escaping. Whether you're struggling with addiction or seeking a mindful and fulfilling life, this episode offers valuable insights and practical tips for everyone.


Connect with Jeremy:

🌍 Website: JeremyLipkowitz.com

📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/

🎥 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyLipkowitz

📩 Email: jeremy@unhookedacademy.com

Jeremy’s Online Course: Unhooked – Step-by-Step Guide to Quitting Porn: https://www.unhookedacademy.com/


Timestamps:

00:00 Introduction
03:14 My Background and Journey
04:24 The Power of Mindfulness and Meditation
05:27 Silent Meditation Retreats: A Bootcamp for the Mind
09:28 Recognizing the Problem: Moments of Realization
12:09 The Impact of Lust and Craving
13:48 The Path to Happiness: Beyond Sensory Pleasures
14:58 The Concept of Neuroplasticity and Its Implications
22:19 The Subtle Impacts of Pornography
25:43 Developing Mindfulness: Practical Steps
29:45 Linking Mindfulness to Overcoming Porn Addiction
30:18 Understanding Equanimity and Its Importance
31:17 Facing Unpleasant Emotions Without Running Away
32:31 The Power of Mindfulness in Addiction Recovery
33:19 The Role of Awareness in Emotional Management
35:27 Developing a Fulfilling Life Beyond Addiction
40:41 The Rat Park Experiment and Its Implications
45:01 Achieving Unconditional Freedom and Inner Peace
53:35 Skillful Responses and Emotional Liberation
57:48 Final Thoughts and Resources for Further Help


Connect with Sam Tielemans

📷 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samtielemans_mft
🌍 Website: https://healingcouples.org/

🔗 Couples Healing From Pornography Addiction Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/32uM9Y9DxEzyhAYLpPZzbQ?si=6ddd21c6f4a94677

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