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Sep 16
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Lock-In Season: How to Build Discipline ...

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Do you keep telling yourself “next year will be different”?
Are you tired of ending December feeling like you let yourself down?
What if the thing you’re avoiding—discipline—is actually the key to your freedom?

 

In this tough-loving episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi Devlukia challenges us to stop waiting for the new year and start now. She breaks down why self-disappointment is the hardest pill to swallow, why discipline—not motivation—is what actually creates change, and how a simple plan can carry you through messy emotions and resistance.

 

Radhi shares practical tools for the last 10–13 weeks of the year: how to go all in on your goals, design a plan that removes excuses, and hold yourself accountable daily. She also offers hard truths—motivation is useless without action, your comfort zone is keeping you stuck, and you can have excuses or results, but not both.

 

This episode is not about doing more—it’s about doing what matters with consistency, so you can end the year proud, not regretful.

 

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • Why discipline creates freedom instead of restriction
  • How to plan your days and weeks to beat procrastination
  • Why consistency feels hard at first but becomes your new normal
  • How to tip the scales and go all-in without FOMO
  • Five key questions to keep you on track every day
  • Why action comes before motivation—not the other way around


If you’ve been putting off your goals or waiting for the “perfect” time, this episode is your wake-up call to stop delaying and start showing up—for yourself.

 

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