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Sep 2025
25m 24s

“Poor Me” Energy Is Killing Your Power

Erika Cramer
About this episode
Most women don’t have a confidence problem, they have a victim problem. You’ve been telling yourself “I’m not good enough,” “I don’t know enough,” or “Who am I to do this?” Let’s get real - none of that is humble. It’s a distraction. And it’s keeping you broke, invisible, and burnt out. This episode is the loving bitch slap you didn’t know you needed. I’m br ... Show More
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