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Jun 2024
20m 50s

There is Nothing Wrong with You

Trista Guertin
About this episode

In this episode of This Daring Adventure podcast, I address common feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt experienced by many women. I've heard it many times in coaching sessions and from myself! It happens to all of us - and none of it is true.

We'll explore the roots of these feelings in childhood, primitive brain functions, and societal messaging.

I offer some advice on recognizing and combating these negative thoughts through self-compassion, journaling, and seeking alternative, positive beliefs.

There's nothing inherently wrong with you and I encourage you to build a better relationship with yourself to achieve a more confident and fulfilling life.

00:45 You Are Okay: Addressing Self-Doubt

02:21 Understanding the Roots of Self-Criticism

08:49 Changing Your Thought Patterns

13:23 Practical Steps to Build Self-Compassion

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