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Sep 13
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219: Girl, F Him: A Lesson in Letting Go...

KOEREYELLE, Personal Development Coach
About this episode

Whew, chile! In this vulnerable and powerful episode of the Girl Stop Playin podcast, I'm getting real real about forgiveness, boundaries, and the freedom that comes from finally letting go of the pain that’s been holding you hostage. After the response to my last episode — where I broke my silence on betrayal in business — y’all already know I had to circle back with the word that came from my girl Nicole. 💬

We’re talking:

  • Why forgiveness isn’t a feeling, it’s a decision ✨
  • How I’ve been paralyzed in purpose for two whole years 😩
  • What it looks like to forgive him (yes, that him)...and myself 🙏🏽
  • The real reason God might be holding your next blessing back
  • Why you can’t create space for what’s next while holding onto what hurt you

Plus: how this baby girl in my belly is already helping me become the bold, boundary-setting woman I was always meant to be 💪🏽👶🏽💕

This one ain’t just therapy for me — it’s healing for you, too. Press play and give yourself the permission to forgive, free yourself, and get back to business. 💼💖


🎀 If you want to send the baby some love, here's her registry link



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