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Sep 2025
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Where have all the yearners gone???

Unbothered
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BRING BACK CHALANT MEN. RIP to the “wyd?” text at 7pm. We want plans, effort, and a little emotional devastation. This week we unpack the lost art of the courting phase, how media shaped our expectations, and why consistency is the real grand gesture.


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